Being 20 something is (not) hard...

Most of my friends feels that somehow the hardest age that we have ever have is 20 something (i mean before 30), why ? well let say in this age, we have done such as:

1. We have graduated from "boring" college
2. We have made our own money by working day by day, stress at work is a usual part of our life
3. We "know" who we are (even we still missing small part of our self)
4. We found our "love of our life"

in this circumstances, we are allowed (or let say we can afford) to do everything that make us happy. and we think that we deserved for this after the long period of miserable moments at college.

The most annoying thing is that our family started to asking about the marriage. Ok dont put all the eggs on them, because the only thing they know is in their phase life, it supposed to have a grandchild. But once again, this is our own life, and just us. They can not even understand and feel the way we feel about this kind of marriage things. At the time we disapointed about our self because of the unreadiness of having the new life, what they only can do just say "be patient..".

well, i think if we can just thinking that marriage is not the only way to satisfy your parents and family. we can just enjoy our life in this 20 something, meanwhile preparing our self to enter the gate of "having my own family" things. Coz there will be no "Love and flowers" in marriage like we used to have with our boy/girl friend. It will be just "money talk" in marriage, and how we manage and get our emotion stabilized by let our ego go and replaced by "our own family".

The marriage supposed to be a "want" moments, not "must" moment and not "because of" moment. We only have our 20 something once in life, and dont bother to ruin it down at the beginning of this phase. Prepare your self with better carreer or something that is you passion with, before you let thus all gone replaced by "family" stuff and requirements.

At the time you "want" to marry someone, you will smile as it supposed to be, since everything is well prepared. Inside and outside..

-Just what i thougt about marriage, since i see most of my girl friends are panic and worry about her ages and get marry in rush eventually-